… and I think I’ll take the digital camera, some photo’s of the outside of the house might help if we can find some on-line house selling places.

Sort of a problem – we’ve got the house signed up with estate agents, which means we have to forward any potential buyers on to them for them to handle things.

I think when we visit the house I’ll turn the water off at the mains and then run the tank dry. I wish I could empty the central heating system as well, but a check on the web suggests that is more complicated and probably not something I can do quickly.

Should reduce the number of leaks we could get, and at least if we do get a leak, it’ll only have a finite amount of water to dump into the house, after which it should run dry.

I wish I’d thought of this two months ago – but two months ago I wasn’t thinking about anything.

Well, either today or tomorrow I’m going to have the face reality. I do own a house. It is mine. I do need to take care of it.

It’s probably already got frozen pipes. I just hope they haven’t burst, don’t burst, won’t burst. Are pipes covered by buildings insurance? What about the walls and the like? I’m not bothered about the decoration, we’re selling after all, but would be nice to know I can get the walls fixed.

I bet they don’t pay out if you’re not in residence [sigh]

That’s the biggest problem – worrying about everything in advance, fearing the worst, the stress building to the point where, some people, like me, react by hiding from it rather than facing it. I know other people face up to these things, get them sorted, soldier on, but some can’t. Some folk, like me, just end up putting these issues aside to sort out later, and then the worry and the stress mounts.

[deep sigh]

I usually land on my feet, life has been like that for a long time, I’m spoiled by it I guess, but this time, I just feel like I’m falling, and my feet are pointing skyward ……..

I’m increasingly pleased with Gemmell Mania and the interest being generated by it.

I must get some new quizzes done.

… and of course the really annoying thing is that even by just writing that last entry, I feel more positive. I wish I talked these things out with Grete more. I wish I talked more generally.

What I don’t understand is how I can have buried my head in the sand for so long over the house. What the hell was I thinking? Is it really any surprise that I’m feeling so stressed now over the whole thing?

I have this image of a snow plough, built with a large flat plate on the front, happily driving forwards through the snow, not caring that it’s all just building up in front of the plough and not actually being moved aside. Eventually, it’s going to be an issue.

We’re struggling with money, we’re both suffering one form of depression or another, we just need to get it sorted.

I know I have to go to the house tomorrow, to collect the mail, but I also know that it’s going to lead to spending more money, where from? Where am I going to get that money? Why didn’t I sort this out earlier, when it might not have been so bad. I know that doesn’t help, what if’s don’t help especially when they are negative.

Just concentrate on moving forwards, sort out whatever bits can be sorted out, don’t worry about anything else because there’s nothing I can do other than try my best.

Easy to say, not easy to do.

I know I can do it, I used to do it all the time, just do what needed to be done, just get sorted what needed to be sorted. But I’ve always been lazy, letting other people sort stuff for me, houses at Uni and again afterwards. Even arranging my own mortgage was almost surreal.

Time to forget that, time to just sort things out. Whatever it takes.

aaaaaaaaaaaaar rggggggggggghhhhhh rrrrraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa rrraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagggggrrrrrrrrrrrrhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Today I made my own peas pudding for the first ever time. Not quite as nice as my mum’s, well, let’s be honest, no where near as nice, but still edible and not bad for a first go.

It’s my second go at making the soup she makes as well, and this one looks much nicer than the last – next time should be even better.

Vvvvvvvvwwwwwwwwwwoooooooooooooooooooooooooooom

Ordered the cable modem this afternoon. I just hope NTL manage to get it installed correctly on the first visit.